My relatives live in a rural area and they still maintain old customs. One of them is, during the wedding party the already married men walk around the groom in a circle, each in turn talking to him about the things he has to give up now and the things now he has to do.

So now it's my turn.

The sleep deprivation is bad, very bad indeed. But there is one more thing. While my wife and my first son were still in hospital, I went out with my friends for some bars and stuff. It must have been a successful evening for I don't remember too much of it and I lost a gift one of my friends gave me. But I remember one thing very well - it was the last night I went out with my friends, ever.

Enjoy!

Jan Waclawek